Memorable Memoirs

“No, I haven’t read it yet. But I bought a copy.”

If you have no idea what I’m referring to right now, you may need to renew your subscription to People Magazine, spend more time on social media, or even read NY Times Book Reviews more often. The question for this answer is:

Have you read Prince Harry’s memoir yet?

For a number of reasons, I haven’t. I do own it, and like everyone else, regardless of how many spoilers they’ve heard or how well they personally know the royals - I have very strong opinions. However, those are for another post after I actually read the book!

For now - it seems as though memoirs are enjoying a great amount of attention these days. I can imagine during the dark days of COVID, many high-profile people thought “well I can’t perform right now, so why not write a book?” and readers are now enjoying their toils. So I thought it would be timely to honor their hard work of self-reflection and writing and take a moment to share a few of my more recent favorites memoirs.

Biographies have long been a favorite genre of mine. Does anyone remember the Value Series books? I was obsessed - especially with the book on Jackie Robinson and his imaginary baseball friend. I spent countless nights listening to my dad read these books and I know I am the better for it.

I never stopped loving this genre, and as great as biographies are… I find so much more emotion and insight in a well-written memoir. I may not agree or even like the person, but I find learning their perspective and thought process to be fascinating.

Here is a picture of me at the first book signing I attended and obviously I’m not a fan of the author at all. However, the book was fascinating. Also, in case you are concerned about safety - no chairs were thrown at this event.

Surprisingly, I had a horrible time ranking my favorite memoirs so I listed them alphabetically. How can I pick a favorite between Jessica Simpson, Trevor Noah, and Julia Child? These are all first among equals!

Also, this is not an exhaustive list by any means. So at the end of this post, I included a few honorable mentions as well as other memoirs that I am hoping to read sooner-rather-than-later. Finally, for the most part, I focused on recent memoirs as opposed to those which have stood the test of time - like Diary of a Young Girl - in my opinion, books like these belong in a separate category.

As always and most importantly, I would love to hear about any memoirs and autobiographies that you love!

Friendly reminder - if this list inspires you to purchase a book, please do so from an independent bookshop.


My Most Memorable Memoirs:


All In an Autobiography

by Bill Jean King

This book takes commitment to read as it is long. However, the pay off is well worth the effort. Billie Jean King is a charitable tour guide as she leads us through her rich and full life of self-discovery while at the same time changing the world. I left this book realizing that all women enjoy the fruits of her labor, regardless of their athletic ability.

Born a Crime

by Trevor Noah

Growing up, I knew cursory ideas pertaining to apartheid in South Africa and the lives of people like Desmond Tutu and Nelson Mandela. This book connected those ideas for me and inspired me to learn more about this time in history.

(A great follow-up book is Hum if You Don’t Know the Words by Bianca Marais)

Crazy Brave

by Joy Harjo

Wow! This book is stunningly beautiful. I’m the first to admit that poetry or lyrical writing is not my favorite. However, this book shares a perspective of an indigenous experience in a way that stays in my mind. This is a book I will revisit.

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

by Matthew Perry

If you are looking for a fun celebrity memoir telling you entertaining anecdotes about the greatest television show - this is NOT your book.

If you are looking for a memoir that describes the gut-wrenching experiences of an addict in a way that are in equal parts heart-breaking, frustrating and inspiring - this is your book. Also, I highly recommend listening to the audio version, as it is read by Matthew Perry himself.

Go Up for Glory

by Bill Russell

For even the most nominal sports fan, this book can be fascinating, especially for those who are interested in the role of social justice and professional athletes. Written in 1968, Russell provides thoughtful insight on issues that are still unresolved, and his talent for writing is equal to his talent on the parquet.

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?

by Mindy Kaling

I really appreciate Kaling’s perspective on issues of female independence that GenX and Millennial women face. Of course, there are many laugh-out-loud sections of this memoir. What makes me love Mindy even more is her ability to write in a way that makes me feel like we are sharing hilarious vignettes over drinks.

Kitchen Confidential

by Anthony Bourdain

This was my first introduction to Anthony Bourdain many years ago. He is someone that significantly influenced the way I understand traveling and, in a broader sense, how we are all connected. I will forever be grateful, and I really miss him.

Know My Name

by Chanel Miller

The issues surrounding the #MeToo movement have rightly touched multitudes of people. Processing trauma and tragedy is scary, and Miller provides a warm and empowering hug to the many “Jane Doe” women whose stories need to be heard. She is also a great person to follow on Instagram: Click Here.

My Life in France

by Julia Child

What a gem of a book. Buy this book and read it regularly. Keep it on your bookshelf for life. Gift this book to any kindred spirit for any occasion. This book will bring smiles, inspiration, and a desire to live a life full of love.

Open

by Andre Agassi

Fans of tennis find the beginning of this book to be bittersweet, as Agassi details how much he disliked the sport he played and that millions of people love, and loved watching him play. The long journey of Agassi’s self-discovery is one that I found mesmerizing.

Open Book

by Jessica Simpson

I thought this was going to be a fluffy memoir by a pretty blonde describing rich girl problems. I’ve never been more wrong about a book. Simpson showed me how this thinking is a symptom of a larger cultural problem for women - especially those who were teens in the 90’s. The only person I would imagine not liking this book is John Mayer - but he’s the worst, so who cares what he thinks.

The Glass Castle

by Jeannette Walls

One of the attractions of memoirs is hearing stories of how people overcome seemingly insurmountable challenges. The Glass Castle is one where I found the author to be resilient, courageous, and compassionate. This is a story that has stayed with me long after I read it - and I found the movie to be worth seeing as well.

Shoe Dog

by Phil Knight

It is hard to imagine what the world would be like without Nike and that there was once a time when Nike did not exist. Phil Knight captures the reader’s attention by detailing the gambles, risks, and bets he made to make Nike into what it is today. Also, I hope that future editions will include an addendum on Panda Dunks. I’d love to know the story of how those came to be!

Surrender

by Bono

Including Surrender is no surprise to anyone who follows this blog and knows of the influence U2 has had on my life. I’m not sure if non-U2 fans would like this book, but if you do appreciate Bono, this a beautiful read. It’s also 40 chapters so it could be a great read during Lent if that is your thing.


Honorable Mention Memoirs:


Becoming by Michelle Obama

Educated by Tara Westover

My Life On the Road by Gloria Steinem

Stories I Only Tell My Friends by Rob Lowe

Taste: My Life Through Food by Stanley Tucci

The Color of Water by James McBride

This Will All Be Over Soon: A Memoir by Cecily Strong

What’s a Girl Worth? by Rachael Denholander

You Can’t Make this Up by Al Michaels


Still-Need-to-Read Memoirs


Angela’s Ashes by Frank McCourt

Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates

Born Standing Up: A Comic’s Life by Steve Martin

Home Work: A Memoir of My Hollywood Years by Julie Andrews

I Am Malala by Malala Yousafzai (I Know! I Know! I’ll read it - I promise!)

I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou

I Must Say: My Life as a Humble Comedy Legend by Martin Short

The Closer by Mariano Rivera (my 6th grade nephew gifted me this book for Christmas!)

Thinking in Pictures by Temple Grandin

Troublemaker: Surviving Hollywood and Scientology by Leah Remini

unSweetined by Jodi Sweetin

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